Orgasm pleasure.... She says she's C*m but im not sure?

This is so embarrasing to me but here goes...


Ide really like my wife to scream and moan when we make love as she reaches a climax... but she does'nt... I know I dont, but after 2 minutes of intense liove making, she says she's C*m and goes to sleep.... Am I doing something wrong....???





Desperate husband...

Orgasm pleasure.... She says she's C*m but im not sure?
2 minutes, she either faking or can orgasm with a hand shake, try oral on her, its the only ways my wife gets off
Reply:i think she is faking it because when u have an orgasm the last thing u wanna do is sleep u just wanna hug and kiss the guy to say wow...then sleep


in terms of 2 mins...it is possible....if im really worked up and touch in the right spot i can *** in 5 mins





speak to her about your concerns....and if she says she is c*mming not much more u can do apart from trust her
Reply:Women don't always scream, that's a very Hollywood thing. But they can make little yelps on occasion. As long as her body gets red and shakes a lot (and looks not-put-on) you've done your job well.
Reply:2 minutes is enough if you give her plenty of foreplay - and i mean plenty. I pleasure my woman with my tongue and fingures until she cant take it anymore - i penetrate give her a few strokes and i can tell by the way she squeezes me so painfully that she has had a genuine orgasm.





In your case i think she is faking it
Reply:Indulge in sufficient fore play prior to inter course
Reply:After just 2 Min's i don't think so , unless shes very sensitive down below, maybe shes just not in the mood or shes a greedy bit*h and just likes herself to get the pleasure . bit selfish of her don't you think.
Reply:Maybe she doesn't know your feeling this way...have you told her? Communication is the key to a long lasting happy relationship, if you dont' tell her this is what you like and want she won't know and will continue to keep doing this then your not happy ....your not doing anything wrong, all woman are different, maybe she is embarrased to scream and moan like that, or maybe she wants to but doesnt' know how you'll react, the only way your ever gonna find out it to talk to her about it, that's the whole key to having a good sexual relationship is telling the other what you want, so have a talk with her and tell her this is bothering you and i'm sure she will be willing to listen and do what makes you happy.
Reply:Hi, I think you should invite Danielle D around for dinner lol





But if I tried that with my partner I would get a slap around the head lol so at least you got a willing partner. She's right in a lot of things she says so just keep trying. Maybe your wife doesn't really want sex but doesn't want to say no to you either and therefore fakes her orgasms to make you feel you have done your job.





The best thing that you can do is TALK to your wife and tell her how you feel. I always make my wife come now but there are times when it hasn't happened and sometimes I am the one who doesn't. Remember an orgasm is not compulsary.





Not all women moan and scream during sex. My partner moans and screams when we not having sex lol. Take your time, lots of foreplay, get some toys, give her a massage, giver her oral. Master the art of holding back. It took me a while to master this but before I did I found the easiest way was to mastubate about 20 minutes before sex. Now I either change position or alter my rythm or withdraw and give her oral.





Good luck and bed doesn't have to be boring.
Reply:As most everyone here has said, two minutes is awfully quick, almost to the point of impossible without a vibrator. UNLESS, and it's a big unless, the foreplay is amazing.





Putting aside whether she gets you off during these "intense" two minutes, whether you engage in foreplay, or whether she just "says" she's come or acts like she has (all of which you've not specified), either you are doing something wrong, it's rather boring, or she's just not interested.





Case in point, shouldn't you be able to tell if she's come? Speaking as a woman who has been on both the giving and receiving end of many a female orgasm, if it's good, you will know.





On the other hand, maybe her orgasms are small (not all of us scream and moan any or all of the time), and that's why you can't tell. In any event, a mind-blowing orgasm is something you CAN'T hide, so it's pretty clear that she's not having one of those.





Here's hoping that she at least talks to you about this stuff. If she's distant in other ways, it may be time for marriage counseling. And if she's paying no attention to you in bed (or otherwise), then it's definitely time for some communication. Read the signs.
Reply:I think she's faking it. Not cos she's not screaming and moaning, but because you'd know if she had. There are lots of different signs, quickening of breath, her skin will flush, her muscles will contract, plus, if it only takes her 2 mins then she's a very lucky girl!!!
Reply:She probably reserves the screaming and moaning for when you burn the dinner......liove?
Reply:I've been married for 18 years %26amp; intercourse had been reduced to a "Sunday morning before the 11 yr old wakes up thing". I wanted HER to get a little more out of it %26amp; found out how. I found a web site by Gabrielle Moore called Female Orgasm Revealed (ww.femaleorgasmrevealed.com) and the results in our relationship have been phenominal. She told me she had never had an orgasm from my penetration nor from any of her previous relations. With the information I gained from her web site, that has ALL changed! Take lots of time, plenty of foreplay to raise her excitement level (that doesn't have to start in the bedroom either) and ask her what feels good. When you start hitting her G-Spot %26amp; cause her to orgasm, you WILL know. I do and we now have the problem of waiting for my son to GO to bed about every night. Good luck, slow down, It's awsome.
Reply:she sounds selfish wam bam thank you man keep her hanging on til you're both there, much better ahhh
Reply:2 mins is a bit quick for most women...maybe she's not really in the mood and wants to get it over with? Ask her what she wants
Reply:i have to agree with tencar, than quick!!


no way, think she may be telling porkies to get you to hurry up.sorry
Reply:look to see if she has a strawberry rash on her neck, you can't fake a rash. If you think she is faking it then ask her to talk about what she wants in bed. It can only help.
Reply:From a womens point of view I think shes defintely faking as you would feel her muscles contract around you and her heart would beat faster. Im not sure about the 2 mins either, that's quicker than anyone I know. Not everyone screams but there definitely should be at least a small moan!!. Keep trying.
Reply:I can only give you an accurate judgement on the shade of her cheeks, ( face ) ?? or perhaps otherwise.
Reply:As a rule woman are more into foreplay. A woman having an orgasm in 2 min. well that is really suspect to me.


You guys have 2 minutes of intense love making? I call that a quickie not really love making.


Slow and easy soft and wet foreplay that is the key. She may not be a screamer/moaner but if she is really be pleasured you'll know.
Reply:no offense but i do come after 2 mins as well and it is soo intense i feel like sleeping the best thing is to let her rest for half an hour and start foreplay gently all over again i don't like my partner to keep touching me immediately after climax so it is best to wait half an hour and restart then it takes a longer while to come again this time can even have multiples in the sec ond round .


good luck
Reply:all right


first you prob take really fast if u do or dont just take it REALLY slow at first. a lot of men just rush into it too quick. no matter wht happens if you think your girls is relaxed, well shes not. so i suggest doing a lot and i mean a lot of foreplay ( oral, u no the whole nine yards) and then gradually ( gradually being the key word) start, then listen to her. in fact listening to her is the first step MAKE SURE YOU understand what she wants. communication is needed. once thats done the rest is just following what she wants. of course do what you want but not to much because you want her to say " oh yeah baby" lol so yeah


i hope i answered your question.
Reply:Desperate Husband,





Have you ever had her on top? IF she climbs aboard and leans forward so that you can suck upon her bosoms...and slides up and down your rocket and grinds just slightly...


That will stimulate her CLIT and make her orgasm.





This is MY personal fave position, and I *** every time sometimes multiple times...especially when I blow before Rabbit MAN! (Hubby)





Try this, and I am sure it will help...it helped us!


(so much so, we are now expecting our 2nd child after 8 years of fertility problems! )


BTW- we are still at it! LOL





Blessings and luck
Reply:Well I just started moaning not so long ago and me and my husband been married for a long time, also and I would do the same thing your wife does, I don't think there nothing wrong she probably does C*m, in her own way though so chill your doing your job:)
Reply:ok....do it like this and you're sure to suceed:





One day when she's least expecting it.....get behind her and take off her pants, push them down and bend her over the nearest chair/table/etc/ (NOT BED....BORING) play with her for a few minutes and get her really wet then just put it in a little bit (don't ram it out....that won't work!) try playing with her at the same time (if you can reach) generally, take it slow......make it all about her....loads of foreplay....touch her gently all over....kiss up her back (most women love this) and even if she protests.....don't let her go to sleep....be the man....carry on (don't rape her if she really doesn't want to though, lol!)





(p.s- if you do it slowly enough....when she does come, you should feel a fast tightenings and release on your d*ck, it's hard to fake this...so watch for that.)
Reply:Danielle D got it right but if you too quick play for a bit longer, more oral, save the big man for when you can tell she about to. You should be able to tell! Are you sure she even knows what an orgasm is? Not trying to be nasty just covering all angles! I have friends who didnt know, strange but until you have then how would you? Good luck.
Reply:She might not climax if she has to scream and moan and carry on like a monkey just to get you off. It's so much easier for a woman to climax when they can be themselves and act naturally. If she says she's climaxing, then let it be. Don't try to over analyze this situation.

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